If she felt obligated as a family member and did not want to give a gift, then OK. But to bring a guest with no consideration and totally at our expense, I think this is wrong. I do believe in gifts, and this is a FIRST. Some people just had bad marriages, and don't believe in gifts. You know even the smallest gift would have meant something. Her father is very shocked. I'll admit I'm hurt as the bride. Se la vieDefinitely RUDE How could you not give a gift to your father and his new bride Shows just how thoughtless people can be
